Why does a show of intense rage (without violence) raise objection and a show of love doesn't? Why must I be discreet with my anger and open with my love? I am mean sometimes (actually most times) and I wish to have the freedom to express my meanness just as I have the freedom to express my affection.
If being in "civilised" society means that I must mask my real emotions about a person or situation to "maintain decorum", I'd like to go live in the jungle.